Contributed by Mark
Member of Lovedbyher.com
For some of you falling in love will be done with a picture and email. That is normal in our Internet society so don’t let anyone scare you otherwise. It seems perfectly acceptable to say I met my wife on Yahoo Personals, Match.com or any other Internet net site but some people (mostly old stuck in the mud) want to scare you off with the cold war crap about you can’t trust Russian/Ukraine people/women and how could you think of meeting a woman on the Internet. Duh this ain’t the 1950’s.
Well the facts are that meeting your fiancee on the Internet is about the only way you are going to be able to in the beginning. If you use a reputable match making service like LovedByHer.com you will have no worries. They want as many men as possible to use their service and they get that by having successfull men like me and you get happily married. So relax and write a woman. Be assured that it is a woman writing you back and if you doubt it ask her for a picture holding a sign that says hello ????.
Let me say one other thing about writing these women and falling in love with them. Many men ask me (I’m recently married to a woman from the Ukraine) if these women are as good as they sound in the letters and look in the pictures. My response: Absolutely NOT! THEY ARE BETTER!! Ukraine women place family first, treat their man like he is a King and spend time with the children like it is the most important moments of their life.
Finally, don’t be a fool and write forever. Remember a fool with a plan is better than a genius without one. Write a woman and when you are ready book a flight and go marry the girl. Remember that their are millions of American men that can’t stand American women (surely you didn’t think you were alone) so plan that trip to the Ukraine (Loved By Her.com can help you with your Ukraine trip) and go meet this beautiful girl. I promise you wont be disappointed. I wasn’t.
Happilly married to the most beautiful girl.
Mark
Tags: divorce, Divorce with Children, International Marriage Agency strikes gold, Living the Dream with a foreign bride, Meet your Ukraine Dream wife; I did, russian woman, Russian Women in America, sex, Unhappy American Men go Abroad
July 12, 2009 at 9:11 am |
I totally agree with you, except on two points.
First, the great evil little known (apparently) in Russia / Ukraine is scam and they are everywhere (google search “woman scam”) and therefore this must be wary because many sites are serious and are necessarily men behind a pc.
So distrust a woman who falls in love after 5 mails or that no longer exists on the site after the initial contact by mail.
and for some reason, never send money. and for the photos is more easy to add a small piece written “just for you, my tender Mark!” Photoshop is very good and if you still have a doubt, the phone call is possible but not certain that the woman sought.
And secondly, I think women today (modern) does not just stay at home, caring for husband and child in 1950!
Even in Russia, They need activity, other than family responsibility, independence …. it is also part of blossoming personal and family.
A french ….
August 1, 2009 at 4:50 am |
I have been to the Ukraine three times in the last year. I have never been had any of the women I dated so much as ask for a nickel. Understanding that most make very little money I gladly pay for meals, movies etc. and if I ask a woman to travel from say Lugansk to Kiev I give her the $20 for the train ride. My experience is that men that get scammed usually had it coming. For example they want to write women outside of an agency that meets and approves women (most agencies have the womans passport on file that shows her marital status) or they expect women to love them just because they are from America or some other Western Industralized nation. For me I have had no trouble dating some of the most beautiful women in the world. All in the Ukraine:-)